6/19/2011

Our family will never forget 6/19/2011.  Other than the special Father's day, it's also our son, Evan's 12th year old birthday!

Evan has looked forward to this day for awhile.  A few months ago, he told me that he did not quite enjoy being in the Primary anymore before he was the oldest; and he also thinks the youth activities are more fun.  But most importantly, he was excited to hold the priesthood to pass the sacrament.  I am so glad that Johnny had prepared him well.... talking to Evan about the things pertaining to the priesthood.  

During the 3rd hour that day, Johnny gathered me and Jeannie to witness this special event.  Johnny conferred the priesthood key to Evan, and every leaders in the YM presidency including bishop was there to bless our son.  It was sacred and peaceful!

I hope Evan will always remember this day and to hold his priesthood worthily so that he can in turn bless others when in need.  Remember to always stay in the right path, son!      

Child Like Character

I felt so guilty one day after Jady spills and spit out her drinks all over the floor and clothes twice on the same day.  I totally lost it and hit her little hands twice.  I felt so terrible after the clean up.  So, I took her in and told her that mommy was sorry .  I was even more ashamed of what I did as she said, "It's okay, mommy!"  My heart melted and I reassured her that it's not okay for mommy or anyone to hit, and mommy will not do it again.  

Kids have a big heart to forgive and I need to learn to be more like them.  As the scripture says,

“And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.  Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven” (Matt. 18:2–4).

Jun 6-8

Jun 4-8

Johnny was in LA for a few days between Jun 4 to 8 and I was home with the kids until he came home on 6/8 to celebrate our 19th anniversary!  It's hard to believe that we've been together for 19 years!!!  :D  We do have our moments in lives, but the journey has been wonderful with the Lord's help.  

We are saving money for our FL vacation, so we did not do much to celebrate.  We went to the "picnic" dinner with the gardening club instead.  The people were so nice and sweet.  Most of them are women in their 70s and 80s, and some even has been a member of the club for over 20 years!  Their involved their husbands to be part of the group, and they are very friendly, loving and appreciative.  The club not only offer educational presentations, but also services to the community and fundraiser for scholars.  It's such a wonderful group to be with.  

My observation is that people tend to look younger as they stay active.  Being with them brings the peace and kindness within me.  They do make a difference! 

May 21: Jeannie's Driving Permit

Congratulations Jeannie on getting your driving permit...  A step closer to independence!

Mom still thinks it's a bit too early to drive, but we trust you and know that you are a safe and responsible driver!   Don't fail your vision test again, or else you will be sent to the optometrist like last time!  :D

Fireside with Sister Beck

Sister Beck from the General authority came to visit our stake last week; so Johnny and I had a chance to visit her at the special fireside.  She is so sweet, so awesome and so spiritual!  We even had the opportunity to chat with her for a little bit after the fireside.  I felt great around her presence!!!

Here are a few things that I learned from her that evening:

Lesson 1: All answers pertaining our life can be found in the scriptures.

It was impressive to me how Sister Beck answers all questions from the audience using her scriptures.  The scriptures taught us true principals.  There is power in it; and it will be beneficial to our lives if we study it everyday.  

Lesson 2: Promise to study daily.

Sister Beck shared with us that some point in her life, she made a promised to the Lord that she would "spend some time reading the scripture everyday".  At first, I thought it would be a challenge for me.  But then, she said that some days we might read 5 mins, other days we read a few chapters, or at times might be even 5 verses... but the goal is to  read it everyday.  

Lesson 3: Maintaining the spirit while raising our children..... again through the companionship of the holy spirit.  

One of her excellent talks in 2007 tilted "Mothers Who Know" gives a full insight on the role of motherhood in our days.

http://lds.org/general-conference/2007/10/mothers-who-know?lang=eng

• Mothers Who Know Bear Children
• Mothers Who Know Honor Sacred Ordinances and Covenants
• Mothers Who Know Are Nurturers
• Mothers Who Know Are Leaders
• Mothers Who Know Are Teachers 
• Mothers Who Know Do Less
• Mothers Who Know Stand Strong and Immovable

It was a blessing to be able to attend the meeting and to realize that the leaders from the general authority lives just like we are and struggle similar issue like we all do!  

BYU Soar camp!

Yet another great news!!!!  Jeannie made it to the BYU soar camp for this summer.  I seriously thought she wouldn't make it since there were 500 applicants, and only 300 got selected.  She will have a chance to check out the school, and a life experience of living on campus.  It will be good...

Judge not, that ye be not judged!

Good news... the lady who was involved in the car accident survived!!!  According to the insurance agent, the woman's insulin level was low when she was driving.  She first ran into Johnny's car, then crashed to a wall sign and broke a few ribs and bones as a result.  She's been discharged!!!  


This is such a relief.  I am happy that she is alive!  Anyhow... the lesson that I learn here found in Matthew 7:1-2. 


"Judge not, that ye be not judged.  For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged; and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again." 


Before the investigation, Johnny and I both thought the woman was on drug or alcohol, and we agreed on the consequence of causing her life was just too big to imagine.  However, we had a total different view on this matter ever since we found out the cause of the accident was due to her illness.  We have no right to judge whether it was under influence or not.  A life is a life, and she deserves to live. 


I am thankful to learn such an important principal again!